Building Your Best Life

From WITHIN your HEART, your VISION as your Inner Pathway

Stupid is as Stupid Does… Forrest Gump said it best

Well, life IS… certainly a trip…

With the past few months, NO YEARS… of my journey I find that what I thought I knew… and what I know for sure… is that I know nothing for sure. I don’t know JACK!

Why do I say this you may be asking? Well, I ask myself everyday… what do I want? What can I do to feel better? What does my audience want of me?

The answer is clearly nothing… for I have no clients. Only spammers… why bother writing for those who would take and waste my time…

Why take the time to share what wisdom I have to share… for who. I can write in my own journal and keep my thoughts to myself… for who really cares. It is my life.

The intent in having this blog as well as the others is to impart something of value, that I have experienced, learned and hope add value by sharing -

Things in my own life have turned south… really south. The vision I hold or held is so blurred… and meaningless at this time… that I have closed my eyes..

I can’t bear to see…

I have said goodbye to almost everyone and everything that I thought mattered… the price to pay, the pain too great… there are some things that are priceless and others worthless…

Where is the value? I am looking for it – just as you might be.

I am looking within…

So, while I take this journey to find my own best life, to rebuild this house … create a new vision… draw up a new plan…

consider this site UNDER CONSTRUCTION…

Posted 7 years, 6 months ago at 9:17 am.

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Your Best Life begins with me

Hi and welcome back,

This is a statement as much to you as to me.

In my own life – like many of you – change is happening.

In fact, CHANGE is all there is.

Look around you, look within you. Our bodies are the perfect example of eternal change, with each breath, each moment our cellular structures continue to regenerate, to rebuild our bodies. YEAH! a whole new body within one year, some say. I would tend to trust the resources, as they are among the most prominent  health science professionals on the planet.

Look around at the planet, swirling, faster and faster, renewing itself, its cycles, shifts, changes each days weather is different, unique even if only slightly observable to our naked eyes. Even the GPS of each spot on the planet is changing, constantly, growing, shifting, evolving, expanding.

Isn’t that our job, to grow, shift, evolve and expand.

So, let’s face it… change is who, why, and what we are. Being in the now is the key to making the best of the changes, shifts and movement that we experience.

I have relocated back to my HOME state of Colorado. No I wasn’t born here, but it is where I came when I was 20 and have made my HOME, raised my family which is growing, changing again, expanding. With another grand child due this week, another boy, and boy oh boy am I a proud grandma. I missed out on the first year of the current ‘baby’ now 17 months old and he is such a delight, filling my soul with such joy… and there are the girls who live in Florida, who I have only seen 4 times in their now 14 and 9 years. If I could change anything that is definitely one thing I would change. I would see them at least twice a year.

In order to change my own circumstances, which also means addresses, again, I need you. I need to help more people, to give, to serve… for without a client base my work is not work but only fruitless efforts toward a selfish vision, to live my passion and purpose.

As I focus on writing my book I have surrendered to the what is, making the best of where I am, in between stages of my thirty years as a life strategist and an entrepreneur who specializes in how the living environment provides a safe haven, a sanctuary of beauty and nurturing support for each of its occupants.

I often ask “Is your house holding you hostage?” and upon closer examination we, my client and I, discover the causes of what is going on in their lives.

I just had a very fun and exciting conversation this week with a previous client who is currently having difficulty and we examined her four lucky directions. (We each have a power direction, 4 lucky directions,  and 4 unlucky direction that influence our lives.) In the course of a few pictures emailed to me I was immediately able to see the reasons for great shifts that I recommend for her greater good and improved alignment.

I speak of alignment, balance and clarity often. For without these three factors in place, the journey we take is akin to traveling without a map… Ever feel lost, dazed and confused?

If you are experiencing changes that feel inappropriate and not of your choice, for your highest good. There is something you can do about it… You can take action and email me.

You can ask for help and I am more than available and willing to help. And my promise to you is you get to decide the value. What is 45 years of expertise worth to you? What is expert status Feng Shui consulting worth to you?

If you are losing your home and being forced to move, PLEASE do you homework and find the right home, not just another address. Your address really matters, the direction of your front door and your sleeping direction really matter and either create success or chaos. Which do you want to bring forth into your life? Have you had it, more than enough, strife and struggle.

It can be different. It can be another way.

It is up to you, CHOOSE!

email found on contact page.

Posted 7 years, 9 months ago at 10:47 am.

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Admitting the Truth… how to build your best life

Hi and welcome,

One of the hardest things in life is coming to terms with failure… you know that step back to reflect, to take stock and to know that this too shall pass.

Since my beginning as an entrepreneur… I have struggled all along the way, where was the next client coming from…. the long spells in between this job and that project.

In 2004 when I lost my home to a mortgage scam… I lost everything I had worked 30 years for… and since I have made every attempt to rebuild, from scratch, from having nothing … and guess what it didn’t work.

Nothing has worked.

The hardest part is admitting that nothing has worked.

I come to the place of letting go.

I write articles for Synchronicity In Your Life, an online magazine and that too has passed. In January I wrote about letting go, and recently I write an extensive ebook taking that concept further… to where I really let go of all my dreams for they have brought more pain than pleasure.

We all know the meaning of INSANITY: Doing the same thingsd expecting different results.

I did things differently and still received the same results… the opposite of my desires… anything but what I want.

So, I let go…

What have I to share? How can I be a life coach when my life is nothing that I would wish upon upon anyone…

Thanks… for the message, for allowing me to accept my what is… a new path will emerge… I know it will… someday when

Posted 8 years, 2 months ago at 12:21 pm.

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How Feng Shui IS of Law of Attraction

What does Feng Shui have to do with the Law of Attraction and how it relates to Building Your Best Life?

This morning I am listening to an interview with one of my own mentors, Marie Diamond is affirming in her sharing everything that I also teach and share about the oneness in Law of Attraction principles and the ancient wisdom of Feng Shui philosophy. If you would like this to listen to this interview please send me your comments or an email.

Feng Shui and Law of Attraction has everything to do with you and your living environment, your life and your results. Everything is energy, the flow of energy system that is in all, from the inside (your beliefs, thoughts, actions) and outside in the environment the physical evidence, (images, space planning, color). What we see is an influencing factor to how we feel.

With all the current economic loses I can show you how your living environment, the home you love so much could be both at cause and a remedy for the situation you are experiencing. I know, I have had the same kind of experiences, and I too lost my home, before I learned what I know today.

If you are not experiencing great success with what you believe and the actions you are taking… this is the missing link for most. There is another layer to this magical cake we experience as life.

I help my clients on one-on-one basis… and I am available to help you too.

Posted 8 years, 2 months ago at 9:38 am.

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It’s all about YOU – Building Your Best Life

Hi and welcome back,

If you are seeking to find help, answers and ways to BECOME healthier, experience better relationships, how to make more money,

searching out here

YOU’VE COME TO THE RIGHT PLACE.

You see, if you are not successful in terms of Being happy with what you have, your first job is to find YOU

I know I’ve traveled the journey. We all do at some point.

The point is you have to find you. Your soul came and somewhere upon the way you forgot that that is who you are and you lost your way to your passion, purpose and your successes. The real you, the soul that is asking you to remember who you are is searching for meaning.

Without meaning you do not achieve successes. You have gone through the motions and ended up asking

‘what happened, why am I not happy?’

Finding the real YOU:  Your soul came here to BE an authentic you.

Remembering that soul purpose is your only job.

Unless and until you make this connection, nothing, no thing, out there will every really matter.  There aren’t enough toys, food or relationships, sex, money or cars to make you happy and bring you to experience real joy and inner peace. You journey will allow you to become happy and being successful begins with YOU,  BECOMING you, BEING you.

The world is waiting for your light to shine. Remember the Sunday school song you sang as a child , ’I'm gonna let it light shine, let it shine, let it shine’. 

Anything and everything else is wandering around lost in the desert. It is time for you to shine. You are unique, you have purpose, passion, and creativity that only you brought to earth plane.

You have heard the saying you are  ’Human having a spiritual experience.’ Well, you have to BE the soul that is having a spiritual experience in this human body.

Much like the experience you have when you have a new vehicle. You get all excited and proud of the vehicle that represents your persona, wealth and style. Well, the same is true of your soul, it is excited to have your human body as its new vehicle to express its creative expression, passion, purpose and unique gifts to the world.

So, where do you start?  You start by stopping. Get still, quiet and learn to tap into your own heart. The heart is the souls brain. It knows who you are, why you are here and what you really want. You know because you feel it, in your gut. You just KNOW.

I know you remember that feeling. Think back to the last time you really KNEW, no doubt, no fear… YOU just KNEW that what you were doing, asking for or receiving the intuition to take action upon was unquestionable.

When you remember who you are, you KNOW who you are; you know clearly what you want; you become strong in why you want what you want; and you are UNSTOPPABLE.

Look around at anyone one to three years old, THEY KNOW. They don’t take no for an answer without a fight, and fight to the end. If they are hungry you know it; if they don’t want to go to bed they let you know… on and on and on.

And then, under the pressure of being told no and the course of conditioning that we all experience they lose who they are.  Unless, in very unique circumstances they have been nurtured by very enlightened parents. They are the lucky ones.

So, your job is to allow yourself to get back in touch with the real you. Take off the masks, drop the ego, allow yourself to go inside. I am not talking about meditation, that is a way to get quiet for some. There are other ways. 

It’s not hard, it is just something you unlearned. It’s not your fault, you were taught otherwise.

You were taught many inappropriate ideas, concept and beliefs.

The support you are seeking is seeking you. I have committed to help you find the real you.

Your comments, questions and support are waiting for you. All you have to do is DECIDE. The rest is easy.

More… later. See you soon. Thanks for taking the journey with me.

Veronica

Posted 8 years, 3 months ago at 4:04 pm.

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Building Your Best Life, Let’s imagine together!

When we want something other than what we have we are invited to imagine.

Einstein gave us his gift of wisdom with  ’imagination’ is more important….

So, let’s imagine together.

What does Building Your Best Life really mean to you?

Sometimes when we imagine we get some of the ideas and details and other times there are areas that remain vague, allowing for expansion of the original thought.

As I continue to Build my own best life, and God knows that it is a work in progress… seems like my childhood home, always under construction.

only a glimse

only a glimse

The vision, plan and drawings are on the board for revision, taking a second look, fine tuning the details, working out the kinks, spit and polish some would say… redlining, the architectural term… and my red pen is moving across the drawings with both ease and grace…

So, until next time… stop and think about what you imagine your desires, those ideas in the making… daydream a little and write it down. For in writing it down it becomes more clear.

Just as I have been advised to read this aloud, to hear what I am saying gives me greater clarity about what it is I want to impart. For if I can’t see clearly the outcome of my efforts on your behalf how can I possibly give you the very best of what I have to give.

Prepared to give you the very best… focused, clear and committed to BE the very best life design coach out here… just for you. Thanks for coming.. The door is open, come on in.

Veronica… go to the contact page and let me know you want to discuss your own personal building project… from imagination, vision to a fully constructed castle.. your very own sanctuary…from WITHIN.

Posted 8 years, 4 months ago at 4:04 pm.

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Building Your Best Life begins with AWARENESS

AWARENESS, the first step to solving any problem: Since awareness is always the first step to solving any problem that is where I will start in addressing your problem…..

You pick what problem you are facing.

This will be the one of many posts I will do on the subject of awareness.

As we continue our journey of defining what Building of your best life is, as a construction process, one thing occurs to me. The very idea of being aware is that each and every day we have the opportunity to assess where we are upon this ongoing construction event in our lives.

You get to review the original architecture, see the envisioned outcome, your vision on paper, in writing and in varying phases of build out. You are the architect and you get to decide at any point if the grand design is working for you.

You do have your life plan on paper, written out, every detail designed, your order placed as you sit down each day to your buffet.  Don’t you?

OR maybe you are not the grand designer of your life. Just maybe there is a master architect at work and you are only the carpenter. With tools in hand you hammer away at a plan you can neither see nor read the plans for… they are not written down.

Think about it. How often do you get to a place only the way that speaks to you as if you are not here… how did you get here and where do you go from here?

Stop and reflect, is your grand design what you envisioned it to be, become? Or is in the construction zone of ‘what was I thinking?; what where they thinking as they read the plans, ordered the materials. This is someone else’s plan. They got the address wrong.

Today, as I reflect it would appear that I left the construction site for too long a period and they went ahead with what they thought was my idea. Well, I don’t think so. You know that feeling. You wake up one day and the grand design, your ideal plan is not working for you.

What happens next? You get to stop the show; rewrite the script and begin again.

Think about it. Who drew up your best life plans? Did you get your copy, signed and approved? Or are you building from your imagination one day at a time?

We’ll be back with more on this subject later… so see you later.

And if you have your two cents worth to share, I’ll eagerly await your point of view.

 How to reach me?: You’ll find me on the contact page… see ya soon.

Veronica

Posted 8 years, 5 months ago at 1:07 pm.

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THE SECRET to Building Your Best Life

THE SECRET WITHIN THE SECRET:

The only way to experience THE SECRET

of living and “Building Your Best Life”

is to go WITHIN.

 

Just what does that mean you may ask?

 

To MAKE the decision to put all the pieces together is a once in a lifetime experience, one most of us never really make. The pieces are there, the Picture is incomplete.

 

Building YOUR BEST LIFE

does require a commitment

to learning, effort and practice

but what doesn’t?

We have DECIDED – HAVE YOU DECIDED?

 

“Do you do just whatever comes along? Do you plan your day with something definite to be accomplished towards your aim, toward your ambition?

 

One type of people are called “drifters,” another type are called “builders.”

 

Are you a Builder or a Drifter?

You can tell only by what you are accomplished. When you look at your achievements so far you feel, see and can be held accountable for what you are.

 

  

The evidence is before you. But even more importantly the evidence is only what you believe to be true. You can change and change only happens from the inside.

 

  

Deciding to change your results has to begin within, with the choices you make. And one of the hardest yet easiest (don’t let me confuse you here) changes we make is being conscious, becoming aware of your feelings, your attitude, your perspective and your beliefs.

 

 

Beliefs are only your thoughts. Thoughts are repeated habits and behaviors… the patterns you continue to use because you have already done them, repeatedly, experienced them AND you like the comfort of them.

 

  

Now, you may not like the results but that is the point of what it takes to be able to choose again and new choices will change your outcomes.

 

 

So, no matter what you have accomplished you can create new and different choices, have a new vision, clear intentions and more meaningful purpose.

 

 

All you have to do is DECIDE. No different than going to your favorite restaurant and ordering from the menu. You get to choose and each time you go, don’t let that waitress tell you her favorite or even your ole standby…

 

 

Declare: Today, I am ordering something new, something I really want.

 

 

Maybe that is to explore and order something you have never tried before. You know, like on vacation where they have things that you don’t have at home.

 

 

 

So, off to the Far East… what will you order today? Deciding is easy. It’s courage that it takes to change. Just close your eyes and point. Let’s explore.

 

 

I invite you to the contact page to place your order. Fast and effective service is available… just ASK. It is up to you. I am here to serve those who really want change in their results. And you know as well as I do that we don’t do it alone. We say one thing and then go about our comfortable lives… waiting until something out there changes… and nothing out there is going to change your results.

 

 

It is up to you… with the support you want.. you can have it all… WHAT do you want? More importantly WHY do you want it? And what will you feel like when you get it. Know the answers to these questions… if you, tell me your successes or send me an email and we’ll create some new successes.

 

Ready, set… GO to my contact page. You read this far… keep going… the next step is – Go to my contact page for the one-on-one support you want… The SECRET is within you…

 

 

Posted 8 years, 6 months ago at 11:28 am.

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HOW TO ‘Building Your Best Life’, a Vision experience

An email is taking the next step!

An email is taking the next step!

January Visions, Dreams and Goals 

 

You have made your choices, written down your vision for 2009, laid out your dreams on paper, and charted your goals.

Haven’t you?

What’s next?  I invite you to read on…

In only 10 days you can find your path to

BUILDING YOUR BEST LIFE, YET.

It is up to you to do the work, and with the guidance of someone who has traveled this road for over 35 years …and is now older than dirt… one who continues to grow everyday.

This is how you learn the “inner game.”        

Want to come along?

It is my intent and purpose to work with you, individually, for I know that the best results come with one-on-one attention, intention and commitment. When you are ready to take that next step forward you want instant results, you are ready to do it now, and you want to know that you can and will succeed.

I am ready to work with those who have declared ‘no more’

Have you declared?

I AM READY!

 Have you made the decision and commitment to do what you say you desire to experience?

 Why not? A brief introductory conversation will help us get acquainted and reveal how I can help you with BUILDING YOUR BEST LIFE.

 As my gift to you, an email to me IS TAKING THE NEXT STEP!…

 I invite your exploring, questions and comments. Email Veronica

 Veronica,

from wintery Idaho… Make a great day!

Come on back… we are exploring what, why and how to have the life you dream of… this is your own journey, with the support you really want.

It is proven that we don’t do it alone… we say one thing and we just don’t stay on our path… disbelieving in our dreams… often because someone else said “you’re crazy; you can’t do that; You’re gonna do WHAT?..

I believe in you… and I am here to work with you one-on-one and in small groups as appropriate.

And I promise it is affordable. Just ask me… go to my contact page and you will hear right back from me.

 

Posted 8 years, 6 months ago at 8:09 pm.

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Building Your Best Life, what it is for you! Part 1

Are you living the artistry of your life’s journey?

Why I ask you this question: Let’s talk about what it means to have a Life coach as a partner. That is what I am here for… to share one on one… with you, to help you come to your own place of allowing life to be a 365daylife experience of joy.

Here’s a lyric that rings true to the times of digging deeper to find our way:

“…I’m heading on down a one-way highway, searching for a sign That leads the way, so fast from day to day
I’m heading on down this one-way highway, somewhere down the road Another morning waits for me, each day another mystery I’ll take it on my own, go there alone…”

Well, you never have to travel the road of transition alone again.

The Keys to creating your blueprint for successful lifestyles are to walk the path each day with an open heart, mind and soul…for the experience of the journey.

Not only will we be exploring the pathways to an inner you, we will also come to understand the Laws of the Universe, especially the missing pieces to the Law of Attraction and how combined with other principles they provide mirrors of each other, one more powerful than the other. When combined they will rock your world with Alignment, Balance and Clarity that can’t be described in the few words I have here.

This can only be experienced. Just as with most of our lives we want to have the experience ourselves… no one can tell us how to walk in another’s shoes.

Having walked in the shoes of transition and constant change, a lifestyle of both choice and chance… the results are of your own making. We are all experiencing much change. One thing is for sure… change IS.

Can you relate? Times have changed. And it is high time we do too.

Are you ready?

What will you make of your journey?

We cannot go through life, even a day or a week without experiencing change, so face it, and walk into it. (But it does not have to be walking the hot coals.)

Embrace newness… for change is all there is. That next breath of fresh air… the first clear sign of change.. is moving through. Time changes, second by second and life is a breath in and a breath out in milliseconds.

Are you ready to have the support you desire and deserve for life chaos, challenges or changes you are experiencing.

What will you make of your journey?

My gift to you is my lifelong passion and purpose in helping you to find your center, grounded and heart of what really matters, the inner peace that allows you to move forward with joy.

All it takes on your part is to have a desire to allow new results into your experiences. The courage to ask for support, that partnering of vision hopes and promise that you too can do it. Whatever your IT is! Just do IT!

Ready, set, GO! Now is when…ARE YOUR READY? What you get from coming here…  Life coaching, partnership:

Together we get the job done.

It’s time for action; subject line: Yes, I’m Ready... results@buildingyourbestlife.com

 

Posted 8 years, 6 months ago at 10:56 am.

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