Building Your Best Life

From WITHIN your HEART, your VISION as your Inner Pathway

Building Your Best Life, as a partnership

Where two or more are gathered…

 

The kind of support you are seeking is seeking you.

 

Just ASK, and it is given. The support that you will receive is way beyond the power of my favorite teachers, Jerry and Esther Hicks and their wonderful book, Ask and It Is Given, and as seen in The Secret.

 

We all know The Secret movie has had more than significant impact upon mass consciousness beliefs worldwide.

 

There are no accidents… you have found your way …to here,  a pathway for the answers you are seeking can be found through the expertise of one who has traveled the path before you, walked in your shoes and has tested the troubled waters…and has survived.

 

An unlimited number and growing hourly, of other coaches are out here to help. But let’s face it; here we are right here, right now in the right place, right time, just you … and me.

 

The Abraham laws of attraction (LOA) teachings remind us ‘We never get it done!’

 

Many years ago, in my early days of coaching my design clients sought my help while in the process of creating new custom homes and furnishings. In the design process I often felt that I too needed help and I found it. My coach told me ‘the day you need help you will ask for it and you will find it.”

 

 

The support you will find with me is nurturing and healing, fun and intriguing.

 

Building Your Best Life is a 365 Day Life Spiritual Journey WITHIN, your own personal experience.

 

I love it when I declare that LIFE is a spiritual journey, nothing more, nothing less. This helps me to understand my own journey, the why and how I find so much pleasure in the passion and purpose I have for helping others.

 

That means you… Yes, you there…with the questioning look on your face… Lost; so, where to from here???

 

“Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.”  Carl Bard

 

You have found your way here and I can lead the way …holding your hand, to Home; that inner home, we call soul.

 

My life changing Building Your Best Life programs are designed for the 365 day life, for we all have a full time life that we lead. Each day we get to begin again, with a fresh new start…

 

We all work WITHIN, the framework of homes, jobs and our community of family, friends and peers. We all have our own desires, perspectives and life styles.

 

We have families, we share our lives with peers and friends; we aspire to nurture and grow with all those in our lives.

 

I am here to serve you and to create wonderful relationships and friendships across the world. 

 

I invite your exploring questions and comments.  Email Veronica

Posted 8 years, 6 months ago at 11:11 am.

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MY BIG WHY! How Building Your Best Life is the KEY

Hi and welcome back,

I am happy to be back from travels, visiting and celebrating with my grandson Riley for his BIG FIRST. The gathering of friends and neighbors and Grandma made for a grand event… he could have cared less. He stuck his fingers in that white muck – called icing with sprinkles and that was the end of that!

So, on with back to work – this is not work, this is my passion and my purpose.

AND, after spending time with family – Family can be the best and worst of life learning experiences. I REALLY know my big WHY. When you are faced with those who don’t have a clue who you really are, don’t and couldn’t think of even asking how is your life, your business…what is going on with you? They don’t and didn’t. I knew what to expect and once again that is what I received. Can that be changed? I am still EFTing on that very subject.

MY BIG WHY is BECAUSE growing up and since I have never had the kind of attention, connection, or supportive encouragement to follow my heart, live my dreams I know that the need for others to have just that is my purpose.

Now, some 45 years into this gig I am writing my first book. After endless count of journals, hundreds of articles, poems, songs, radio and TV appearances I am working on my bio. How do I describe who I am and what I do for YOU. My challenge is how to sum up the diversity and extensive background that I bring to the table of contents that makes up my expertise. Yes, it gives meaning to my life path. The journey, makes me who I am.

I have read and studied with the masters, including Metaphycians Jerry and Esther Hicks, Bob Proctor, Neale Donald Walsch, Wayne Dyer, Tony Robbins, Louise Hay, Marianne Williamson, Laura Day, Oriah Mountain Dreamer, Deepak Chopra – and the list goes on… This is my testiment to the power of the wisdom of others as seeds, blossoms and fruits of my own life journey. Without them I would probably not still be on this planet.

From age 4 I was very creative, spending time with my Mom in making my wardrobe and decorating our home. It was apparent from the very beginning that I had something different, in my doll houses, my way placing the items back on the table after dusting, that was my job.

Why do I share this? My role now is to provide the support you want and deserve to find your way, discover your creative expression, find your voice and tap into the BIG why of your own life. If that sounds like you and where you are… then I am here to help you.

I don’t have a fancy website with books, CD’s and a product line to drain your pocketbook. I do have a personal coaching practice, one-on-one and small group settings. Together we dig deeper and create a new map for your journey. We put together the pieces for the big picture and design a life path that moves your life from searching to discovery. Once you have the clarity your life will be very different. The blinders will come off and you will see and feel more alive. Trust me, the journey can be fun. It may not have been without the support and encouragement you deserve and didn’t have. You can now have it.

I look forward to hearing from you, your comments and inquiry will get you a front row seat and opportunity to start fresh and turn your life around.

What kind of changes are you wanting to experience?

Building Your Best Life is an inner journey that has a clear path into the heart of the matter… what matters most is your heart expression. The reason you came is waiting to be fully expressed. Now is when.

Posted 8 years, 2 months ago at 3:57 pm.

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The Weather Report – inspiration is in the forecast.

Each day I am blessed to have the time and opportunity to read my emails… most are inspirational… for I really need the outside perspective that fuels my soul.

As I live in this time of challenge, change and transition every ounce of encouragement is food for my soul.

Today I applaud Mac Anderson of Simple Truths for the new book and lovely poem, movie, DVD and book he has birthed. Learning to Dance in the Rain.

His story is filled with life of miracle upon miracle from what we would probably call hardship… our outside looking in perspective. But from the inside the person whose story he tells doesn’t see it that way.

The truth is it is how we see it that matters, that counts and creates our life experiences.

I invite you to view the short movie as I did… it changed my perspective of today and hopefully all my tomorrows.

http://www.danceintherainmovie.com/index.html 

What kind of support are you looking for? Each one of always knows where we are and what we feel is missing.

Sarah Breathnach sends us the message “When we choose NOT to focus on what is missing from our lives but ae grateful for the abundance that’s present…we experience heaven on earth.”

I hope you are experiencing heaven on earth.

Your thoughts, questions are appreciated. If I can help you please email me. You can find contact information on the contact page.

Posted 7 years, 5 months ago at 11:46 am.

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A Ray of HOPE

Today this gift came in and I have to share… It gives me HOPE, something I have not felt in a while.

A Tiny Drop of Water
By: Bob Perks

A tiny drop of water washed away the land and buildings
fell, floating away with other people’s dreams.

Roadways planned and formed by huge machines and men who
sweat and hammer the world into shape were pushed away with
little effort.

People ran and cars clogged highways in an effort to stay
ahead of the possible destruction that tiny drop of water
could cause.

“Wait!” you say. “It was much more than a tiny drop of
water. The streams overflowed and the rivers broke through
their banks, causing a wall of water to destroy those
things.”

Yes, but it was made up of tiny drops of water. Raindrops,
which together wore a path right through my yard with
little effort, made up of one drop, then two, then
thousands, millions… all together they changed the world,
our world.

Can’t you see the significance in that?

I want to change the world. I am tired, worn out from
weeping at the sight of still another death not just on the
field of battle laid out by warriors, but in the streets of
every city, in the fields of the impoverished, desolate
reaches of the world. They are dying in my country and
yours by bullet, by starvation, disease, arrogance,
stupidity and pride.

A tiny drop of water gave me hope.

I am but one drop in the sea of humanity, but like the
rain I can join together with others and wash away the
hatred and pain I anguish over. One drop, then two, then
thousands, millions… all together we can change the
world. Our world.I want to change my life. I am tired of
being in debt. I am worn out from trying to keep pace with
the world. I have tried my very best to get ahead and find
myself falling behind each step of the way.

A tiny drop of water gave me hope.

It fell upon the hillside just behind my house. One single
drop of water joined with others forming a stream.

Like trying one more time. Like doing one more thing. Like
pushing one more inch to reach the goal, the dream I long
to touch and make reality. All my little efforts make big
changes.

The little stream that ran down my driveway, never having
been there before, began as one single drop, until one drop
after another, trying again and again, washed the soil away
and moved the tiny pebble and eventually the rock.

I cannot push away the fear nor change my life overnight,
but if I dedicate myself to one single effort each and
every day, I will see the power of changing little things
to make a big difference.

A tiny drop of water gave me hope.

I am just one drop in the sea of humanity. But I have the
power to change my life and the sacred obligation to move
the world in the right direction.

How?

One drop, then two, then thousands, millions… all
together we change the world, our world.

A tiny drop of water gave me hope.

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Today, is another new day, an invitation to feel better.

Today, one of my long time “friends” told me how she really feels about me. I am grateful for her truth. And the saying goes, what someone else thinks of me is none of my business. I now know that the word ‘friend’ has new meaning and one less person I need in my life. Thank you for sharing is all I have to say.

Today, I get to focus on how to live and love who I am… becoming and believing in me.

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Feel free to email me from the contact page.

Thank you for reading and for sharing.

Veronica

Posted 7 years, 5 months ago at 10:59 am.

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Stupid is as Stupid Does… Forrest Gump said it best

Well, life IS… certainly a trip…

With the past few months, NO YEARS… of my journey I find that what I thought I knew… and what I know for sure… is that I know nothing for sure. I don’t know JACK!

Why do I say this you may be asking? Well, I ask myself everyday… what do I want? What can I do to feel better? What does my audience want of me?

The answer is clearly nothing… for I have no clients. Only spammers… why bother writing for those who would take and waste my time…

Why take the time to share what wisdom I have to share… for who. I can write in my own journal and keep my thoughts to myself… for who really cares. It is my life.

The intent in having this blog as well as the others is to impart something of value, that I have experienced, learned and hope add value by sharing -

Things in my own life have turned south… really south. The vision I hold or held is so blurred… and meaningless at this time… that I have closed my eyes..

I can’t bear to see…

I have said goodbye to almost everyone and everything that I thought mattered… the price to pay, the pain too great… there are some things that are priceless and others worthless…

Where is the value? I am looking for it – just as you might be.

I am looking within…

So, while I take this journey to find my own best life, to rebuild this house … create a new vision… draw up a new plan…

consider this site UNDER CONSTRUCTION…

Posted 7 years, 6 months ago at 9:17 am.

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Your Best Life begins with me

Hi and welcome back,

This is a statement as much to you as to me.

In my own life – like many of you – change is happening.

In fact, CHANGE is all there is.

Look around you, look within you. Our bodies are the perfect example of eternal change, with each breath, each moment our cellular structures continue to regenerate, to rebuild our bodies. YEAH! a whole new body within one year, some say. I would tend to trust the resources, as they are among the most prominent  health science professionals on the planet.

Look around at the planet, swirling, faster and faster, renewing itself, its cycles, shifts, changes each days weather is different, unique even if only slightly observable to our naked eyes. Even the GPS of each spot on the planet is changing, constantly, growing, shifting, evolving, expanding.

Isn’t that our job, to grow, shift, evolve and expand.

So, let’s face it… change is who, why, and what we are. Being in the now is the key to making the best of the changes, shifts and movement that we experience.

I have relocated back to my HOME state of Colorado. No I wasn’t born here, but it is where I came when I was 20 and have made my HOME, raised my family which is growing, changing again, expanding. With another grand child due this week, another boy, and boy oh boy am I a proud grandma. I missed out on the first year of the current ‘baby’ now 17 months old and he is such a delight, filling my soul with such joy… and there are the girls who live in Florida, who I have only seen 4 times in their now 14 and 9 years. If I could change anything that is definitely one thing I would change. I would see them at least twice a year.

In order to change my own circumstances, which also means addresses, again, I need you. I need to help more people, to give, to serve… for without a client base my work is not work but only fruitless efforts toward a selfish vision, to live my passion and purpose.

As I focus on writing my book I have surrendered to the what is, making the best of where I am, in between stages of my thirty years as a life strategist and an entrepreneur who specializes in how the living environment provides a safe haven, a sanctuary of beauty and nurturing support for each of its occupants.

I often ask “Is your house holding you hostage?” and upon closer examination we, my client and I, discover the causes of what is going on in their lives.

I just had a very fun and exciting conversation this week with a previous client who is currently having difficulty and we examined her four lucky directions. (We each have a power direction, 4 lucky directions,  and 4 unlucky direction that influence our lives.) In the course of a few pictures emailed to me I was immediately able to see the reasons for great shifts that I recommend for her greater good and improved alignment.

I speak of alignment, balance and clarity often. For without these three factors in place, the journey we take is akin to traveling without a map… Ever feel lost, dazed and confused?

If you are experiencing changes that feel inappropriate and not of your choice, for your highest good. There is something you can do about it… You can take action and email me.

You can ask for help and I am more than available and willing to help. And my promise to you is you get to decide the value. What is 45 years of expertise worth to you? What is expert status Feng Shui consulting worth to you?

If you are losing your home and being forced to move, PLEASE do you homework and find the right home, not just another address. Your address really matters, the direction of your front door and your sleeping direction really matter and either create success or chaos. Which do you want to bring forth into your life? Have you had it, more than enough, strife and struggle.

It can be different. It can be another way.

It is up to you, CHOOSE!

email found on contact page.

Posted 7 years, 9 months ago at 10:47 am.

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Mentors Celebrated

Wayne Dyer is one of my most favorite mentors. Today I give my time, attention and acknowledgement to the power of his latest work… Excuses Begone!

As I recoup from oral surgery… what could be better? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!

Posted 7 years, 10 months ago at 11:32 am.

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Building Your Best Life begins WITHIN

From the very beginning of my own journey of finding my life path, knowing who I am and what I wanted began as a very procosious child. I knew, and still know that my creativity is what fuels my soul.

When I am in environments that are not stimulating I immediately feel drained, down, even depressed. I feel that depression is almost always from environmental conditioning. Either from the physical space itself or the people surrounding who do not honor, acknowledge or appreciate us, the others around them.

I know you know what I mean. You too have had this kind of experiences.

When we are in the company of others who always complain, talk about the politics or religion or even their work, kids or neighbors… something is always wrong.

And BOOMERANG something else happens to both you and them to bring more bad feelings forth. You feel helpless to change the situation or circumstances… STUCK and more stuck.

The ONLY way to change the situation is to separate yourself from the situation. GET OUT. Take off, walk out, take a drive, move – something. WHATEVER it takes.

I know and use the white light, the protective bubble, and other boundaries techniques. I know and use turn it around, think a different thought, send white light, say Thank You for the experience… and each of these are great practices… and in the end I usually still feel ucky… for a time. Refreshed with a bath is usally my best clearing method. Water cleanses best. Try it. You can’t get out of a bath or shower feeling the same way as when you went in.  Breathe deep and blow out the feelings … turn on your favorite music, let is enhance and change the vibration in the space, sing along. You will feel better. I know I do.

Taking the time and space to refresh, to feel, know and see the perfection of the experience, the lessons before you is where the real gift is… FROM WITHIN.

This an other techniques for supporting yourself through the everyday life experiences is what Building Your Best Life is about. You Build it one moment at a time… be here NOW, nowhere else, now here!

Until next time,

Posted 7 years, 10 months ago at 10:56 am.

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I could not have said it better – Best Intentions for Building Your Best Life

I write something almost every day, today I read and found that I could not have said it better. The following is one of the very best ways to implement the core steps in Building Your Best Life.

What do I mean by Building Your Best Life? The very idea that your life may not be serving your best interest or feeling like your ideal dreams may leave you questioning what can I do to improve, to be happier, to love my life.

Daily OM is one of my resources for inspiration. Even as a life strategist and coach I feed my well with inspiration from a number of mentors and models… it is all about perspective. This resources helps me keep my perspective. 

What is your perspective? Is your dreams serving you well? 

Do enjoy the following article from Daily OM.

September 1, 2009
Outlining Your Intentions
Making a List of What You Want
The universe is aware of both the concrete goals we actively pursue and the nebulous dreams we have not yet begun to refine. Neither our struggles nor the daydreams that inspire us are beyond the range of universal perception. Yet to manifest our aspirations, we not only need to know what it is we generally wish to achieve; we also need to clearly articulate these aims to ourselves and the universe. When we create a list of what we want, citing each item in as much detail as possible, our aspirations take on new substance. What was once a mere wish becomes real and achievable when put into words. As you pour the contents of your heart and soul into your list, your well-defined ambitions become a part of you, and the universe responds to your new determination by placing opportunities related to your objectives in your path.

Whatever the nature of your desires, your list can help you channel your intellectual and emotional power into your efforts to realize them. The list you create should not simply be a record of your individual goals. Rather, it should be a comprehensive, exhaustive catalog of each target you want to reach and your reasons for aiming for them. This may mean that your list will encompass many pages of text, since when you write down and review your ambitions, you empower yourself to more accurately direct your goal-realization efforts. You then also have a framework in place that helps you distinguish success from setbacks. If you keep your list in a convenient spot and review it daily, you will inadvertently reaffirm your conviction to your aspirations, demonstrating to the universe that you are truly devoted to your chosen path while keeping your objectives fresh in your mind. If you have an altar, this would be a great place to keep your list.

As you compose your list, try not to edit or judge what you have written. Some of what you want may seem outlandish when considered in the context of your current circumstances. Whether you are destined to fulfill the items on the unique long-term agenda you create in a year, 10 years, or 20 years, if you are free with your ideas and understand that you may not bring these dreams into the realm of reality for some time, your list will attract the universe’s benevolence even as it energizes and inspires you.

When you are ready to take action, don’t forget that having the support you deserve to help you stay on track and be held accountable is the best way to achieve your desires. Life coaching is my craft, my passion and purpose. Without you to assist, my list is unfulfilled.

A simple comment can bring help into your life journey. Let’s Build Your Best Life together. Where two or more are gathered… magical things happen.

Veronica,
Life Strategist, coach, Life Design expertise of 40 years… one-on-one coaching is available to you. Not a CD, an Ebook but one-on-one interactive coaching for your success.

Posted 7 years, 10 months ago at 7:14 am.

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How to be the creator of your hearts desires!

In order to HAVE anything you have to declare, claim and affirm its presence. That means present tense, already here knowingness. That is difficult for most and near impossible for others to even conceive.

 

With each word we speak there is a thought that affirms our beliefs. With each I can’t, I don’t have, you only further affirm that which you don’t have, don’t want… boomerang and you get more of ‘THAT’. Ouch.

 

I have been down this path of both being the magical manifestor and being stuck not having any of the results I have said I want to experience.

 

I have plenty of friend, clients, and money –name it and you will have more of it. … Feel it, mean it, declare it, say it, own it and it will become your reality.

 

Wayne Dyer is one of my favorite teachers, mentors and author.. “you have to name it to claim it”… need I say more. And of course, his latest book, ‘No More Excuses’… We make excuses for our ‘not having’, another profound declaration, and our worst habit. How many do you have?

 

I had plenty. And then I stopped.

 

So, when I GOT IT, I became really clear about the power of my word, and I stopped to get quiet enough to hear my inner voice. I then, and only then, begin to really easily achieve what I say I want to experience.

 

When and if it doesn’t happen you can then see clearly that there is a belief from WITHIN that is blocking your spoken words. That is where the SECRET really lies, in the lies we hold, that you don’t even know that you are holding them as your truth.

 

You will find that with the hubbub of DVD movie “The Secret”, Law of Attraction and the role creating your life there is far more to the story, process and practice of Being the creator of your life.

 

When our lives are filled with chaos, challenge and turmoil, the things that we don’t like, call stress and bring results that are the last thing are ‘wished’ for. It is then time to recognize our deliberate creative role in what ‘we’ have created. Yes, absolutely WE – YOU and I create all this mess – we then push, shove, deny, resist and blame others for our results, situations and circumstances.

 

Let me explain just how simple the evidence is – everywhere in our world.

 

Your world is filled with your most powerful and deadly tool, your word. You say, I ‘never’, I don’t, I can’t, I won’t… you fill in the blank.

 

Only because I too have been guilty of such language and the immediate consequences of such self-talk can I so adamantly share the evidence, unwanted results of such language.

 

How we speak to ourselves and to others is directly reflected in our experiences. What you fear you manifest faster and first, what you complain about brings more of the same, what you affirm with positive I AM and I HAVE statements brings the wanted results; Declare your hearts desires; magnetic Universe – supporting you with the how that comes when we trust! Boomerang!

 

For help in taking the next steps to making the shifts you want to change your results… for personalized life coaching with Veronica, who brings you over 25 years of life strategic planning expertise.

 

If there is anyone who can help you make the changes, easily and effortlessly, it is Veronica. You want support from someone who has traveled the journey so that you can take the shortcuts… she is your go to gal.

 

Posted 7 years, 11 months ago at 12:54 pm.

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Feeling stuck can be your key to opening your heart!

In response to questions that are coming in about feeling stuck. It is not uncommon. The events in our lives are not by accident. They are on purpose, to open us up to the soul journey that is screaming to get out, to be expressed.

Here is my response to such a question about being stuck.

Thanks for being open, for sharing with me.

I know what feeling stuck feels like. So many of us at this particular time are feeling this way. You ar enot alone. But it is personal when we want to have more joy in our lives. The both sides of the coin stuck, yet comfortable and uncomfortable are also very normal. That is the place of comfort with the known and fearful of the unknown.

 Anytime we are in this place, there is something deep within that is asking to come out, to come alive, to reemerge…for our soul knows its path and we are not listening, responding to its urging.

 Let me say, it won’t stop… your soul knows and that is your purpose here on earth…

 to follow that unique inner voice of knowing.

 Nothing shows up in our lives for no reason. Everything, everyone is a messenger.

 So, let’s take a walk through the events that have shown up. Use them as dream messengers…

 Get your journal out and write… write until you have the message very clear.

What have they to tell you? 

Who are the characters?

What do you love about the situation and what do you dislike about it?

 That will identify the love/comfortable and the dislike/uncomfortable aspects being revealed. Both are ways to get up close and personal with both sides of the coin.

 The coin is you… and it is in your loving embrace of this messenger that you will find the key that opens the door to the curiosity… that inner longing that wants out.

 

Thank you for taking the inner path… it is the WAY to heart healing and walking into the light of who you really are.

 

Take one step,… and keep going.

Know that I am here to guide your way.

 Until next time

 

Veronica

Posted 7 years, 11 months ago at 8:53 am.

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What are you are magnet for? Boomerang!

We live in a magnetic Universe… EVERYTHING is energy and the energy we put out is boomeranged right back… CATCH!

ANYTHING and everything that I or you… and I include myself for I too am guilty far more than I’d really like to own up to but I too am human and learning…

KARMA has come alive…

I repeat, ANYTHING and EVERYTHING that you or I regard in any way as less than perfect is a judgement and will, does and absolutely comes back … multiplied.

GET THAT….

The LAW is magnetic. If you want it love it… if not bless it for this too shall pass. It is only a breath, thought… but is it one you want to continue to experience.

You cannot split a magnet there  is positive and negative polarity… if you want positive BE positive; if you are pushing back on anything that is negative response, reaction and creation…

What are we creating?

I know sounds easy to stay positive, love what is… but are we capable of BEING in this joyous state of accepting, gratitude, appreciating, allowing, willing, receptive, loving, honoring, acknowledging. Namaste; are you seeing, feeling and unconditionally loving each moment, person, place or thing… that you/we have brought into our lives.

This is our Planet and we are the DNA, the one energy that is creating everything… our consciousness is the end result, outcome to all that we have and are thinking, believing – and the evidence is before us.

What are we creating?

Think about that one for a while…

Thank you for coming…

I’ll be back again soon.

Veronica
Phoenix Rising… reBUILDING my best life… want to come along for the journey. Partnering helps both of us. Where two or more are gathered… miracles abound.

Posted 8 years ago at 9:12 am.

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