Building Your Best Life

From WITHIN your HEART, your VISION as your Inner Pathway

The Weather Report – inspiration is in the forecast.

Each day I am blessed to have the time and opportunity to read my emails… most are inspirational… for I really need the outside perspective that fuels my soul.

As I live in this time of challenge, change and transition every ounce of encouragement is food for my soul.

Today I applaud Mac Anderson of Simple Truths for the new book and lovely poem, movie, DVD and book he has birthed. Learning to Dance in the Rain.

His story is filled with life of miracle upon miracle from what we would probably call hardship… our outside looking in perspective. But from the inside the person whose story he tells doesn’t see it that way.

The truth is it is how we see it that matters, that counts and creates our life experiences.

I invite you to view the short movie as I did… it changed my perspective of today and hopefully all my tomorrows.

http://www.danceintherainmovie.com/index.html 

What kind of support are you looking for? Each one of always knows where we are and what we feel is missing.

Sarah Breathnach sends us the message “When we choose NOT to focus on what is missing from our lives but ae grateful for the abundance that’s present…we experience heaven on earth.”

I hope you are experiencing heaven on earth.

Your thoughts, questions are appreciated. If I can help you please email me. You can find contact information on the contact page.

Posted 7 years, 5 months ago at 11:46 am.

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Your Best Life begins with me

Hi and welcome back,

This is a statement as much to you as to me.

In my own life – like many of you – change is happening.

In fact, CHANGE is all there is.

Look around you, look within you. Our bodies are the perfect example of eternal change, with each breath, each moment our cellular structures continue to regenerate, to rebuild our bodies. YEAH! a whole new body within one year, some say. I would tend to trust the resources, as they are among the most prominent  health science professionals on the planet.

Look around at the planet, swirling, faster and faster, renewing itself, its cycles, shifts, changes each days weather is different, unique even if only slightly observable to our naked eyes. Even the GPS of each spot on the planet is changing, constantly, growing, shifting, evolving, expanding.

Isn’t that our job, to grow, shift, evolve and expand.

So, let’s face it… change is who, why, and what we are. Being in the now is the key to making the best of the changes, shifts and movement that we experience.

I have relocated back to my HOME state of Colorado. No I wasn’t born here, but it is where I came when I was 20 and have made my HOME, raised my family which is growing, changing again, expanding. With another grand child due this week, another boy, and boy oh boy am I a proud grandma. I missed out on the first year of the current ‘baby’ now 17 months old and he is such a delight, filling my soul with such joy… and there are the girls who live in Florida, who I have only seen 4 times in their now 14 and 9 years. If I could change anything that is definitely one thing I would change. I would see them at least twice a year.

In order to change my own circumstances, which also means addresses, again, I need you. I need to help more people, to give, to serve… for without a client base my work is not work but only fruitless efforts toward a selfish vision, to live my passion and purpose.

As I focus on writing my book I have surrendered to the what is, making the best of where I am, in between stages of my thirty years as a life strategist and an entrepreneur who specializes in how the living environment provides a safe haven, a sanctuary of beauty and nurturing support for each of its occupants.

I often ask “Is your house holding you hostage?” and upon closer examination we, my client and I, discover the causes of what is going on in their lives.

I just had a very fun and exciting conversation this week with a previous client who is currently having difficulty and we examined her four lucky directions. (We each have a power direction, 4 lucky directions,  and 4 unlucky direction that influence our lives.) In the course of a few pictures emailed to me I was immediately able to see the reasons for great shifts that I recommend for her greater good and improved alignment.

I speak of alignment, balance and clarity often. For without these three factors in place, the journey we take is akin to traveling without a map… Ever feel lost, dazed and confused?

If you are experiencing changes that feel inappropriate and not of your choice, for your highest good. There is something you can do about it… You can take action and email me.

You can ask for help and I am more than available and willing to help. And my promise to you is you get to decide the value. What is 45 years of expertise worth to you? What is expert status Feng Shui consulting worth to you?

If you are losing your home and being forced to move, PLEASE do you homework and find the right home, not just another address. Your address really matters, the direction of your front door and your sleeping direction really matter and either create success or chaos. Which do you want to bring forth into your life? Have you had it, more than enough, strife and struggle.

It can be different. It can be another way.

It is up to you, CHOOSE!

email found on contact page.

Posted 7 years, 9 months ago at 10:47 am.

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Mentors Celebrated

Wayne Dyer is one of my most favorite mentors. Today I give my time, attention and acknowledgement to the power of his latest work… Excuses Begone!

As I recoup from oral surgery… what could be better? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!

Posted 7 years, 10 months ago at 11:32 am.

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Building Your Best Life begins WITHIN

From the very beginning of my own journey of finding my life path, knowing who I am and what I wanted began as a very procosious child. I knew, and still know that my creativity is what fuels my soul.

When I am in environments that are not stimulating I immediately feel drained, down, even depressed. I feel that depression is almost always from environmental conditioning. Either from the physical space itself or the people surrounding who do not honor, acknowledge or appreciate us, the others around them.

I know you know what I mean. You too have had this kind of experiences.

When we are in the company of others who always complain, talk about the politics or religion or even their work, kids or neighbors… something is always wrong.

And BOOMERANG something else happens to both you and them to bring more bad feelings forth. You feel helpless to change the situation or circumstances… STUCK and more stuck.

The ONLY way to change the situation is to separate yourself from the situation. GET OUT. Take off, walk out, take a drive, move – something. WHATEVER it takes.

I know and use the white light, the protective bubble, and other boundaries techniques. I know and use turn it around, think a different thought, send white light, say Thank You for the experience… and each of these are great practices… and in the end I usually still feel ucky… for a time. Refreshed with a bath is usally my best clearing method. Water cleanses best. Try it. You can’t get out of a bath or shower feeling the same way as when you went in.  Breathe deep and blow out the feelings … turn on your favorite music, let is enhance and change the vibration in the space, sing along. You will feel better. I know I do.

Taking the time and space to refresh, to feel, know and see the perfection of the experience, the lessons before you is where the real gift is… FROM WITHIN.

This an other techniques for supporting yourself through the everyday life experiences is what Building Your Best Life is about. You Build it one moment at a time… be here NOW, nowhere else, now here!

Until next time,

Posted 7 years, 10 months ago at 10:56 am.

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I could not have said it better – Best Intentions for Building Your Best Life

I write something almost every day, today I read and found that I could not have said it better. The following is one of the very best ways to implement the core steps in Building Your Best Life.

What do I mean by Building Your Best Life? The very idea that your life may not be serving your best interest or feeling like your ideal dreams may leave you questioning what can I do to improve, to be happier, to love my life.

Daily OM is one of my resources for inspiration. Even as a life strategist and coach I feed my well with inspiration from a number of mentors and models… it is all about perspective. This resources helps me keep my perspective. 

What is your perspective? Is your dreams serving you well? 

Do enjoy the following article from Daily OM.

September 1, 2009
Outlining Your Intentions
Making a List of What You Want
The universe is aware of both the concrete goals we actively pursue and the nebulous dreams we have not yet begun to refine. Neither our struggles nor the daydreams that inspire us are beyond the range of universal perception. Yet to manifest our aspirations, we not only need to know what it is we generally wish to achieve; we also need to clearly articulate these aims to ourselves and the universe. When we create a list of what we want, citing each item in as much detail as possible, our aspirations take on new substance. What was once a mere wish becomes real and achievable when put into words. As you pour the contents of your heart and soul into your list, your well-defined ambitions become a part of you, and the universe responds to your new determination by placing opportunities related to your objectives in your path.

Whatever the nature of your desires, your list can help you channel your intellectual and emotional power into your efforts to realize them. The list you create should not simply be a record of your individual goals. Rather, it should be a comprehensive, exhaustive catalog of each target you want to reach and your reasons for aiming for them. This may mean that your list will encompass many pages of text, since when you write down and review your ambitions, you empower yourself to more accurately direct your goal-realization efforts. You then also have a framework in place that helps you distinguish success from setbacks. If you keep your list in a convenient spot and review it daily, you will inadvertently reaffirm your conviction to your aspirations, demonstrating to the universe that you are truly devoted to your chosen path while keeping your objectives fresh in your mind. If you have an altar, this would be a great place to keep your list.

As you compose your list, try not to edit or judge what you have written. Some of what you want may seem outlandish when considered in the context of your current circumstances. Whether you are destined to fulfill the items on the unique long-term agenda you create in a year, 10 years, or 20 years, if you are free with your ideas and understand that you may not bring these dreams into the realm of reality for some time, your list will attract the universe’s benevolence even as it energizes and inspires you.

When you are ready to take action, don’t forget that having the support you deserve to help you stay on track and be held accountable is the best way to achieve your desires. Life coaching is my craft, my passion and purpose. Without you to assist, my list is unfulfilled.

A simple comment can bring help into your life journey. Let’s Build Your Best Life together. Where two or more are gathered… magical things happen.

Veronica,
Life Strategist, coach, Life Design expertise of 40 years… one-on-one coaching is available to you. Not a CD, an Ebook but one-on-one interactive coaching for your success.

Posted 7 years, 10 months ago at 7:14 am.

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How to be the creator of your hearts desires!

In order to HAVE anything you have to declare, claim and affirm its presence. That means present tense, already here knowingness. That is difficult for most and near impossible for others to even conceive.

 

With each word we speak there is a thought that affirms our beliefs. With each I can’t, I don’t have, you only further affirm that which you don’t have, don’t want… boomerang and you get more of ‘THAT’. Ouch.

 

I have been down this path of both being the magical manifestor and being stuck not having any of the results I have said I want to experience.

 

I have plenty of friend, clients, and money –name it and you will have more of it. … Feel it, mean it, declare it, say it, own it and it will become your reality.

 

Wayne Dyer is one of my favorite teachers, mentors and author.. “you have to name it to claim it”… need I say more. And of course, his latest book, ‘No More Excuses’… We make excuses for our ‘not having’, another profound declaration, and our worst habit. How many do you have?

 

I had plenty. And then I stopped.

 

So, when I GOT IT, I became really clear about the power of my word, and I stopped to get quiet enough to hear my inner voice. I then, and only then, begin to really easily achieve what I say I want to experience.

 

When and if it doesn’t happen you can then see clearly that there is a belief from WITHIN that is blocking your spoken words. That is where the SECRET really lies, in the lies we hold, that you don’t even know that you are holding them as your truth.

 

You will find that with the hubbub of DVD movie “The Secret”, Law of Attraction and the role creating your life there is far more to the story, process and practice of Being the creator of your life.

 

When our lives are filled with chaos, challenge and turmoil, the things that we don’t like, call stress and bring results that are the last thing are ‘wished’ for. It is then time to recognize our deliberate creative role in what ‘we’ have created. Yes, absolutely WE – YOU and I create all this mess – we then push, shove, deny, resist and blame others for our results, situations and circumstances.

 

Let me explain just how simple the evidence is – everywhere in our world.

 

Your world is filled with your most powerful and deadly tool, your word. You say, I ‘never’, I don’t, I can’t, I won’t… you fill in the blank.

 

Only because I too have been guilty of such language and the immediate consequences of such self-talk can I so adamantly share the evidence, unwanted results of such language.

 

How we speak to ourselves and to others is directly reflected in our experiences. What you fear you manifest faster and first, what you complain about brings more of the same, what you affirm with positive I AM and I HAVE statements brings the wanted results; Declare your hearts desires; magnetic Universe – supporting you with the how that comes when we trust! Boomerang!

 

For help in taking the next steps to making the shifts you want to change your results… for personalized life coaching with Veronica, who brings you over 25 years of life strategic planning expertise.

 

If there is anyone who can help you make the changes, easily and effortlessly, it is Veronica. You want support from someone who has traveled the journey so that you can take the shortcuts… she is your go to gal.

 

Posted 7 years, 11 months ago at 12:54 pm.

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Feeling stuck can be your key to opening your heart!

In response to questions that are coming in about feeling stuck. It is not uncommon. The events in our lives are not by accident. They are on purpose, to open us up to the soul journey that is screaming to get out, to be expressed.

Here is my response to such a question about being stuck.

Thanks for being open, for sharing with me.

I know what feeling stuck feels like. So many of us at this particular time are feeling this way. You ar enot alone. But it is personal when we want to have more joy in our lives. The both sides of the coin stuck, yet comfortable and uncomfortable are also very normal. That is the place of comfort with the known and fearful of the unknown.

 Anytime we are in this place, there is something deep within that is asking to come out, to come alive, to reemerge…for our soul knows its path and we are not listening, responding to its urging.

 Let me say, it won’t stop… your soul knows and that is your purpose here on earth…

 to follow that unique inner voice of knowing.

 Nothing shows up in our lives for no reason. Everything, everyone is a messenger.

 So, let’s take a walk through the events that have shown up. Use them as dream messengers…

 Get your journal out and write… write until you have the message very clear.

What have they to tell you? 

Who are the characters?

What do you love about the situation and what do you dislike about it?

 That will identify the love/comfortable and the dislike/uncomfortable aspects being revealed. Both are ways to get up close and personal with both sides of the coin.

 The coin is you… and it is in your loving embrace of this messenger that you will find the key that opens the door to the curiosity… that inner longing that wants out.

 

Thank you for taking the inner path… it is the WAY to heart healing and walking into the light of who you really are.

 

Take one step,… and keep going.

Know that I am here to guide your way.

 Until next time

 

Veronica

Posted 7 years, 11 months ago at 8:53 am.

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HOW TO Build IT and so that they will come

How does one BUILD your own field of dreams? You know the movie and the concept. first you have a dream. Where does that dream come from?

We are built to BE creators, designers and creators of our own life. The dreams come from WITHIN, the connection we have to our soul BEING and the passion of its purpose is to nudge us into the knowing that WE are special, a true and authentic gift. The visions we have, our grand designs are what and why we are here. No one else has our uniqueness… there are no others with our fingerprint, our signature – we are in fact the only DESIGN that came in this package, this body, at this time.

By tapping into the inner voices, visions and creative expression that is uniquely you, you come alive with a KNOWING that you must. You know that urge that just won’t let go.

The building your best life process begins with BEING still, quiet enough long enough to hear the voices of your soul. You know when you know, your guidance system, intuition, kicks you in the gut and says YES, now, do this!

The very best way to accomplish this construction process is in the power of 6 little words.

BE HERE NOW, LOVING WHAT IS!

If you can and will come to the place in your peace of mind and honoring of your hearts desires you will know what I mean. Gratitude is the first building block of creativity. Awareness through listening to the small quiet inner voice is the fuel that ignites the soul to say, OK I’m ready, when you are!

The journey is simple, being alive and awake to the moment, loving what you have created already, be CAUSE you have, is the mortor that holds the structure together.

So, what are you BUILDING? Your best life is the demonstration of the casa, castle, home or temple that is YOU.

The journey does not have to be alone… you can have the support you deserve, you can have someone who knows you are special, someone who won’t tell you you are crazy to want what you want. Those who take that path are unwilling to listen to their own hearts, at this time. They don’t know how to love themselves enough to also love you and honor your unique path… the creative expression of God that God sent you and only you to express.

Let’s do it together, leave your comments, ask your questions and let’s do it.
Veronica

Posted 8 years ago at 9:57 am.

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Mentors and Mentees – being guided

I love it when I receive great emails with exactly what I would like to say – but they said it so eloquently that all I have to do is share. Today I received such a message.

On the way to success, which path are you taking:

‘The Silver-Platter – handed to you success or

The Inch-by-Inch Path.
At the other end of the spectrum, we have people who feel they must battle and scrape their way to success. Maybe they were told that they don’t deserve success. Maybe their family or friends said:
“Who do you think you are–you think you’re better than us?” It’s almost like these people NEED to show deep battle scars if they succeed. Then they can say “Hey, I paid the worst of prices for where I got!” I guess it’s good that they succeed, but I doubt they’ll ever enjoy their success.’

This is the one I most relate to… yes, I took the inch-by-inch road less traveled, the back roads, the unpaved route…

The Stepping-Stone Path.
It’s for those of us who weren’t handed success on a silver platter. It’s also for those of us who are not trying to make some statement about how many pints of blood we lost on the way to our goals.

This is the path for people who know that success will take some work, but we want to use every common-sense advantage we can along the way.

We’re very interested in becoming successful, but have no interest in making success harder than it needs to be.”

As we continue down the path, chosen and traveled, are you traveling alone or have you found your mentors to help guide the way.

With over thirty years of road trips I have a unique perspective about how to take the journey, where to start, how to proceed, what to share and how to guide. You, yes YOU are the reason I have taken this journey. For being able to help others along the way is my passion and my purpose. You don’t have to do it alone you know.

I am here, with guidance, assistance, listening, supporting and helping pave the way for the road you choose. You will find the support you desire and deserve.

My coaching is personal, still one-on-one and at very affordable prices. In fact, you can choose your own rate. I know that we often need to be flexible and giving especially in times like these.

If you are searching for your way, traveling without a map and want a guide, you have come to the right place.

I am here, for you.
Veronica,
where Building Your Best Life is providing the vision, foundation and structures to build a life that has more meaning and value, the life you truly want to live.

Your comment or email will get my attention and your response that will take you to the levels of success you dream of.

Thank you, until next time… stop, look and listen… the road ahead is open for your journey.

Posted 8 years ago at 2:03 pm.

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…”Always true, under all circumstances, throughout history”

The four most profound words, always true, under all circumstances, throughout history, are “this too, shall pass.” According to Brian Tracy, one of my favorites and Eckhart Tolle, these four words are the ANSWER to HOW TO cope with, accept what is happening NOW.

Building Your Best Life is about being able to be happy with who you are, what you want, why you want it and how to achieve it.

What is your IT?

Being able to identify and really know your WHY you want what you want is a major key to being able to achieve your dreams. Being present to the NOW and what is, with complete acceptance is the KEY to being open, receptive and coming into the attractive vibration of your desires. The power of the words you choose to identify what you want really matters.

Defining your vision, with powerful words, images and passionate desire is what makes the difference. Being able to hold that powerful intention is sometimes where our greatest challenges are experienced.

So, when you are faced with any challenges or changes that feels out of place, out of character for your grand vision, stop… and be still with THIS TOO SHALL PASS. Being able to take this position will ground you, allow you to center and refocus on your desires.

I am being reminded each day of the WHAT IS and being with how life feels right now. With so much external challenges, changes and constant influx of ‘the sky is falling’ keeps me on my toes. Learning to be with silence, shutting out the media blitz and taking great care in what kind of conversations, communication and connection I am engaged in is making the biggest difference.

How about you? Are you managing your input, guarding the gates, being mindful of holding the vision that keeps you on track with your own personal journey of living with passion and purpose.

Building Your Best Life is a supportive partnership for holding your vision with you, for you. If you are not clearly defined in your life path vision, that too is one of the major processes of being fully supported in that knowing what holds your heart and keeps you on track.

So, when situations and circumstances come in to pull you aside, off track and questioning your journey, it is time to stop, to listen closely and take the time to go inside, from within, to revitalize your hearts desire.

Remember, the power of your words, what you say is what you get… so affirm your intention, hold your vision, keep mindful of your desires and allow THIS TOO SHALL PASS to be the grounding that will keep you going, on track, and when you want and need support you deserve, reach out and ask for help to keep you going.

Building Your Best Life… What you will receive is one-on-one coaching. I do have the experience of having taken this journey for over thirty years, and I can help you. I have my own personal coaching, connection and communication that helps you be the BEST you can be, and already are.

ask your questions and get the support you want and deserve.
Until next time,
Veronica

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Posted 8 years, 1 month ago at 11:39 am.

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