Building Your Best Life

From WITHIN your HEART, your VISION as your Inner Pathway

THE KEY to success – Relationships

The keyword is RELATIONSHIP… without the relationships in our lives we would be ALONE, totally alone. Yet, we are never alone, not here on planet earth -it’s impossible.

How you relate to your SELF, your own knowing of who you are, the real meaning of your existance, the why you are here, as a gift to humankind, as Gods creative expression is your real WHY. God made life and life is who and what you are.

How you find, feel and forever express your unique gift is the purpose of your life.

Nothing happens without VISION – God had an image of what he wanted to create and you are no different. Vision is what is required for you to create your life. How you go about having a clear concise VISION is only achieved from a KNOWING. That KNOWING is only achieved from BEING in touch from WITHIN.

Its no play on words… WITHIN is where you really exist. Unless and until you get up close and personal with you, you will always be looking out there and trust me, it ain’t out there.

You are gifted with an inner voice, your knowing that you are God’s creation, an expression as unique as any snowflake, grain of sand or blossoming flower. Life gives you breath and energy, connection to all that is and yet individually unique.

How you go about KNOWing your true self and your gift is to listen to your HEART. The relationship that you have with God is through your heart. Only when you FEEL and listen to your heart do you really express life.

The one MIND, speaks through your subsconscious mind - and it is your job to understand the messages from the one mind. The trick to the subconscious mind is thatit  is both a recording machine. It is your free choice and power to program this machine. Free Will is expressed as  your DECISIONS and choices. When you want something you have to tell yourself how that want feels. Speaking the language of having the experience is how we bring about the experience.  The power is in the imagination, if you can conceive it you can achieve it.

So, until next time… think about how you are in connection and having a relationship with your heart and your subconscious mind.

Posted 8 years, 4 months ago at 1:10 pm.

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HOW TO Build IT and so that they will come

How does one BUILD your own field of dreams? You know the movie and the concept. first you have a dream. Where does that dream come from?

We are built to BE creators, designers and creators of our own life. The dreams come from WITHIN, the connection we have to our soul BEING and the passion of its purpose is to nudge us into the knowing that WE are special, a true and authentic gift. The visions we have, our grand designs are what and why we are here. No one else has our uniqueness… there are no others with our fingerprint, our signature – we are in fact the only DESIGN that came in this package, this body, at this time.

By tapping into the inner voices, visions and creative expression that is uniquely you, you come alive with a KNOWING that you must. You know that urge that just won’t let go.

The building your best life process begins with BEING still, quiet enough long enough to hear the voices of your soul. You know when you know, your guidance system, intuition, kicks you in the gut and says YES, now, do this!

The very best way to accomplish this construction process is in the power of 6 little words.

BE HERE NOW, LOVING WHAT IS!

If you can and will come to the place in your peace of mind and honoring of your hearts desires you will know what I mean. Gratitude is the first building block of creativity. Awareness through listening to the small quiet inner voice is the fuel that ignites the soul to say, OK I’m ready, when you are!

The journey is simple, being alive and awake to the moment, loving what you have created already, be CAUSE you have, is the mortor that holds the structure together.

So, what are you BUILDING? Your best life is the demonstration of the casa, castle, home or temple that is YOU.

The journey does not have to be alone… you can have the support you deserve, you can have someone who knows you are special, someone who won’t tell you you are crazy to want what you want. Those who take that path are unwilling to listen to their own hearts, at this time. They don’t know how to love themselves enough to also love you and honor your unique path… the creative expression of God that God sent you and only you to express.

Let’s do it together, leave your comments, ask your questions and let’s do it.
Veronica

Posted 8 years, 4 months ago at 9:57 am.

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Mentors and Mentees – being guided

I love it when I receive great emails with exactly what I would like to say – but they said it so eloquently that all I have to do is share. Today I received such a message.

On the way to success, which path are you taking:

‘The Silver-Platter – handed to you success or

The Inch-by-Inch Path.
At the other end of the spectrum, we have people who feel they must battle and scrape their way to success. Maybe they were told that they don’t deserve success. Maybe their family or friends said:
“Who do you think you are–you think you’re better than us?” It’s almost like these people NEED to show deep battle scars if they succeed. Then they can say “Hey, I paid the worst of prices for where I got!” I guess it’s good that they succeed, but I doubt they’ll ever enjoy their success.’

This is the one I most relate to… yes, I took the inch-by-inch road less traveled, the back roads, the unpaved route…

The Stepping-Stone Path.
It’s for those of us who weren’t handed success on a silver platter. It’s also for those of us who are not trying to make some statement about how many pints of blood we lost on the way to our goals.

This is the path for people who know that success will take some work, but we want to use every common-sense advantage we can along the way.

We’re very interested in becoming successful, but have no interest in making success harder than it needs to be.”

As we continue down the path, chosen and traveled, are you traveling alone or have you found your mentors to help guide the way.

With over thirty years of road trips I have a unique perspective about how to take the journey, where to start, how to proceed, what to share and how to guide. You, yes YOU are the reason I have taken this journey. For being able to help others along the way is my passion and my purpose. You don’t have to do it alone you know.

I am here, with guidance, assistance, listening, supporting and helping pave the way for the road you choose. You will find the support you desire and deserve.

My coaching is personal, still one-on-one and at very affordable prices. In fact, you can choose your own rate. I know that we often need to be flexible and giving especially in times like these.

If you are searching for your way, traveling without a map and want a guide, you have come to the right place.

I am here, for you.
Veronica,
where Building Your Best Life is providing the vision, foundation and structures to build a life that has more meaning and value, the life you truly want to live.

Your comment or email will get my attention and your response that will take you to the levels of success you dream of.

Thank you, until next time… stop, look and listen… the road ahead is open for your journey.

Posted 8 years, 4 months ago at 2:03 pm.

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…”Always true, under all circumstances, throughout history”

The four most profound words, always true, under all circumstances, throughout history, are “this too, shall pass.” According to Brian Tracy, one of my favorites and Eckhart Tolle, these four words are the ANSWER to HOW TO cope with, accept what is happening NOW.

Building Your Best Life is about being able to be happy with who you are, what you want, why you want it and how to achieve it.

What is your IT?

Being able to identify and really know your WHY you want what you want is a major key to being able to achieve your dreams. Being present to the NOW and what is, with complete acceptance is the KEY to being open, receptive and coming into the attractive vibration of your desires. The power of the words you choose to identify what you want really matters.

Defining your vision, with powerful words, images and passionate desire is what makes the difference. Being able to hold that powerful intention is sometimes where our greatest challenges are experienced.

So, when you are faced with any challenges or changes that feels out of place, out of character for your grand vision, stop… and be still with THIS TOO SHALL PASS. Being able to take this position will ground you, allow you to center and refocus on your desires.

I am being reminded each day of the WHAT IS and being with how life feels right now. With so much external challenges, changes and constant influx of ‘the sky is falling’ keeps me on my toes. Learning to be with silence, shutting out the media blitz and taking great care in what kind of conversations, communication and connection I am engaged in is making the biggest difference.

How about you? Are you managing your input, guarding the gates, being mindful of holding the vision that keeps you on track with your own personal journey of living with passion and purpose.

Building Your Best Life is a supportive partnership for holding your vision with you, for you. If you are not clearly defined in your life path vision, that too is one of the major processes of being fully supported in that knowing what holds your heart and keeps you on track.

So, when situations and circumstances come in to pull you aside, off track and questioning your journey, it is time to stop, to listen closely and take the time to go inside, from within, to revitalize your hearts desire.

Remember, the power of your words, what you say is what you get… so affirm your intention, hold your vision, keep mindful of your desires and allow THIS TOO SHALL PASS to be the grounding that will keep you going, on track, and when you want and need support you deserve, reach out and ask for help to keep you going.

Building Your Best Life… What you will receive is one-on-one coaching. I do have the experience of having taken this journey for over thirty years, and I can help you. I have my own personal coaching, connection and communication that helps you be the BEST you can be, and already are.

ask your questions and get the support you want and deserve.
Until next time,
Veronica

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Posted 8 years, 5 months ago at 11:39 am.

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Because I Believe in YOU..

Memories are made of this. I remember that song. Do you?

Today marks some significant memories and reminders in my own life journey.

It marks the most special day in my life that we all cherish… that wedding day. A day of love and celebration of two hearts joined with promise. That dream and promise lasted for a few short years, the union a few more years without the celebration and promise. But the memory of those times remains and reminds me of when my heart was young, vulnerable and pliable.

Today marks the day when as the promises no longer were being celebrated, but were being acknowledged as over. My ex signed the divorce papers on the anniversary date and handed them to me saying Happy Anniversary sweetheart… That memory will always be with me for he had broken my heart and I his. Our promises to each other had not been honored. Our friendship had come to pass.

For ‘this too shall pass.’ Reminders that change is with us, at all times.

Today also marks the birth date of my favorite uncle. My Dad’s brother, Frank Herring, who was one of the most optimistic and fun guys anyone would ever want to meet, much less have as a major influencing factor in my life. Today I am reminded of his birthdate and I take this time to honor him as he passed from this plane last week. Out of the six brothers there is one that remains, the youngest, another great friend and uncle…Jimmy. A generation of brothers that have given and shared every life lesson for faith hope and family first. Salude amore.

We each have dates that are significant milestones along our life journey, reminders of times when we were happy, optimistic and rooted in our dreams. What makes these memories great is that as we work toward future dreams we can use the feelings we once had with purpose, as anchors to fuel the thoughts and feelings of how did it, does it feel to have our dreams come alive and into our lives. What powerful tools we have from within to ignite the fires within our hearts.

What dates, memories and reminders do you have that ignite your dreams?

I am celebrating the passing from my entreprenuerial journey as Rhonee, The Feng Shui Queen into a phase of passage, semi-retired, writing my book and preparing to bring you another special phase for visioning, live design and planning; the construction phase of rebuilding firm foundations, strong structures, powerful tools and tricks of the trade of architecture. Architecture for life, the business of building a better life.

www.BUILDingYourBestLife.com is emerging slowly as I take the time and follow my heart through insight and healing of transformation. You might say recycling the old. Take the parts and pieces from the graveyard of yesteryear and making them new again, in new form. Fashioning new and more creative ways of Being into more pliable and flexible experiences that will fit better and serve more.

Come on along… for the journey… My journey of passion and purpose as Phoenix Rising.

You will also soon find new products and services profiled and announced at www.DesignedLivingSolutions.com real soulutions (no typo) for all that I now bring to you is about the soul journey from WITHIN… where the map is invisible, yet clearly Divine.

Because I Believe in YOU..

Posted 8 years, 5 months ago at 2:22 pm.

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Direct from Daily OM…

Hi and welcome back,

I don’t know about you but I have been feeling OFF for a time now. Today I ran away from home… well, even that is one of the hardest words for me to use. I don’t have my own home anymore… this economy thing hits home in more ways than one.

Does a 6 hours on the road constitute a ‘vacation’?

I arrived after my day of cruising through the mountains in SW Idaho, into Oregon, a nice 6 hour round trip, less than a tank of gas and dinner to cap it off. A $30 vacation… today that is as much as I can do… and refreshed, inspired and ready to get back to my writing.

Writing a book and a blog – several in fact… too much so you will see some changes coming.

I could not have said it better or more appropriately. Thank you to Daily OM… could not be more RIGHT ON… it’s not just me.

June 1, 2009
“Taking a Time Out
You Are Not Crazy
Most of us feel a little crazy from time to time. Periods of high stress can make us feel like we’re losing it, as can being surrounded by people whose values are very different from our own. Losing a significant relationship and moving into a new life situation are other events that can cause us to feel off kilter. Circumstances like these recur in our lives, and they naturally affect our mental stability. The symptoms of our state of mind can range from having no recollection of putting our car keys where we eventually find them, to wondering if we’re seeing things clearly when everyone around us seems to be in denial of what’s going on right in front of their eyes. For most of us, the key to survival at times like these is to step back, take a deep breath, and regain our composure. Then we can decide what course of action to take.

Sometimes a time-out does the trick. We take a day off from whatever is making us feel crazy and, like magic, we feel in our right mind again. Talking to an objective friend can also help. We begin to see what it is about the situation that destabilizes us, and we can make changes from there. At other times, if the situation is particularly sticky, we may need to seek professional help. Meeting with someone who understands the way the human mind reacts to stress, loss, and difficulty can make us feel less alone and more supported. A therapist or a spiritual counselor can give us techniques that help bring us back to a sane state of mind so that we can affect useful changes. They can also mirror our basic goodness, helping us to see that we are actually okay.

The main purpose of the wake-up call that feeling crazy provides is to let us know that something in our lives is out of balance. Confirm for yourself that you are capable of creating a sane and peaceful reality for yourself. Try to remember that most people have felt, at one time or another, that they are losing it. You deserve a life that helps you thrive. Try and take some steps today to help you achieve more balance and a little less crazy.”

I am human too.

A mountain drive was my healing process for today… Mother Nature has a wonderful way of bringing forth the perfect remedy.

Until next time, take care of yourself…
Veronica
Phoenix Rising

Posted 8 years, 5 months ago at 9:04 pm.

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WHAT I KNOW FOR SURE

Hi and welcome back,

Over the past few months I have been making every effort to rebuild my business by beginning again, by taking the past and transforming it into my new path, a future of transition and transformation.

Who better to learn from than one who has been there.

I AM THERE!

I too learn and understand that until this process is fully written and experienced into what we might call the end result there is much that is still uncertain.

What I want to share at this time is that in order to better serve you I have to stop serving you here for now, or pretending that you are there to serve. You are not there, not here.

I wish you were, but we both know you can take wishes to the bank and my livelihood is at stake here.

Having lost my home, my father, my daughter and so much more, all that I felt the meaningful things in life my business went too. So, starting all over from scratch with income from only early Social Security… talk about poverty overnight… my worse nightmare came true in a very short period, only a few months to go from The Feng Shui Queen, to dethroned, to homeless.

Now, a couple of years later I am not homeless, but a renter, sharing the home of someone else. Certainly a step up from spending time in my car on the road, searching for where could I go to live that I could afford.

Other circumstances landed me in the Boise Idaho area. Not that I would call this home, I can’t. I don’t have a home. I don’t have a job. I don’t know anyone and those I have met think I am a little left of far right, from another planet. Feng what????

So, for now I am going to FOCUS on my Feng Shui blog, to share what I do know for sure… that bad Feng Shui comes into the lives of even those who know a lot and have helped hundreds change their lives, improve their relationships, careers, even their finances… at the expense of not getting paid for what I give. Well, I am going to continue to give. If I had known what I know now I would not be in this situation.

WHAT I KNOW FOR SURE is that from scratch, from nothing it is very difficult to create anything, much less instill the trust of strangers… who is this person called Rhonee, The Feng Shui Queen?

I invite you to go over to www.TheFengShuiQueen.com and follow the information that has been around for just a few THOUSAND years helping people around the world improve their lives.

No joke… ancient wisdom for modern results… just like the Law of Attraction, no longer a secret…but the wisdom we need now more than ever.

Thank you, see you there… as Building Your Best Life continues its journey into the end result, my own journey back…

Rhonee, The Feng Shui Queen – a PHOENIX RISING

Posted 8 years, 5 months ago at 9:38 am.

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When guidance comes

Hi and welcome,

If you have followed along you have seen that the parts and pieces to this life puzzle are being put together very slowly, in fact, even times when there is no action.

Life does happen that way. We are often not present for all the events that come our way, simply sitting in the bleachers.

It appears to me that when I asked for guidance during these times when it appears that my business appears to be gone… that the angels have taken over the TV remote. Seems every movie I watch has significant examples and answers to the questions I am asking. Subtle yet screaming, ‘are you listening’?

Movie after movie, and I am listen from within, getting the messages… stay the course, and just allow what is going on to be the perfect situation to learn from.

So, take care, write your question down, listen and watch to see what you stop on the next time you have the remote in your hand.

Posted 8 years, 5 months ago at 11:06 am.

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Admitting the Truth… how to build your best life

Hi and welcome,

One of the hardest things in life is coming to terms with failure… you know that step back to reflect, to take stock and to know that this too shall pass.

Since my beginning as an entrepreneur… I have struggled all along the way, where was the next client coming from…. the long spells in between this job and that project.

In 2004 when I lost my home to a mortgage scam… I lost everything I had worked 30 years for… and since I have made every attempt to rebuild, from scratch, from having nothing … and guess what it didn’t work.

Nothing has worked.

The hardest part is admitting that nothing has worked.

I come to the place of letting go.

I write articles for Synchronicity In Your Life, an online magazine and that too has passed. In January I wrote about letting go, and recently I write an extensive ebook taking that concept further… to where I really let go of all my dreams for they have brought more pain than pleasure.

We all know the meaning of INSANITY: Doing the same thingsd expecting different results.

I did things differently and still received the same results… the opposite of my desires… anything but what I want.

So, I let go…

What have I to share? How can I be a life coach when my life is nothing that I would wish upon upon anyone…

Thanks… for the message, for allowing me to accept my what is… a new path will emerge… I know it will… someday when

Posted 8 years, 6 months ago at 12:21 pm.

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How Feng Shui IS of Law of Attraction

What does Feng Shui have to do with the Law of Attraction and how it relates to Building Your Best Life?

This morning I am listening to an interview with one of my own mentors, Marie Diamond is affirming in her sharing everything that I also teach and share about the oneness in Law of Attraction principles and the ancient wisdom of Feng Shui philosophy. If you would like this to listen to this interview please send me your comments or an email.

Feng Shui and Law of Attraction has everything to do with you and your living environment, your life and your results. Everything is energy, the flow of energy system that is in all, from the inside (your beliefs, thoughts, actions) and outside in the environment the physical evidence, (images, space planning, color). What we see is an influencing factor to how we feel.

With all the current economic loses I can show you how your living environment, the home you love so much could be both at cause and a remedy for the situation you are experiencing. I know, I have had the same kind of experiences, and I too lost my home, before I learned what I know today.

If you are not experiencing great success with what you believe and the actions you are taking… this is the missing link for most. There is another layer to this magical cake we experience as life.

I help my clients on one-on-one basis… and I am available to help you too.

Posted 8 years, 6 months ago at 9:38 am.

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