Building Your Best Life

From WITHIN your HEART, your VISION as your Inner Pathway

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How to be the creator of your hearts desires!

In order to HAVE anything you have to declare, claim and affirm its presence. That means present tense, already here knowingness. That is difficult for most and near impossible for others to even conceive.

 

With each word we speak there is a thought that affirms our beliefs. With each I can’t, I don’t have, you only further affirm that which you don’t have, don’t want… boomerang and you get more of ‘THAT’. Ouch.

 

I have been down this path of both being the magical manifestor and being stuck not having any of the results I have said I want to experience.

 

I have plenty of friend, clients, and money –name it and you will have more of it. … Feel it, mean it, declare it, say it, own it and it will become your reality.

 

Wayne Dyer is one of my favorite teachers, mentors and author.. “you have to name it to claim it”… need I say more. And of course, his latest book, ‘No More Excuses’… We make excuses for our ‘not having’, another profound declaration, and our worst habit. How many do you have?

 

I had plenty. And then I stopped.

 

So, when I GOT IT, I became really clear about the power of my word, and I stopped to get quiet enough to hear my inner voice. I then, and only then, begin to really easily achieve what I say I want to experience.

 

When and if it doesn’t happen you can then see clearly that there is a belief from WITHIN that is blocking your spoken words. That is where the SECRET really lies, in the lies we hold, that you don’t even know that you are holding them as your truth.

 

You will find that with the hubbub of DVD movie “The Secret”, Law of Attraction and the role creating your life there is far more to the story, process and practice of Being the creator of your life.

 

When our lives are filled with chaos, challenge and turmoil, the things that we don’t like, call stress and bring results that are the last thing are ‘wished’ for. It is then time to recognize our deliberate creative role in what ‘we’ have created. Yes, absolutely WE – YOU and I create all this mess – we then push, shove, deny, resist and blame others for our results, situations and circumstances.

 

Let me explain just how simple the evidence is – everywhere in our world.

 

Your world is filled with your most powerful and deadly tool, your word. You say, I ‘never’, I don’t, I can’t, I won’t… you fill in the blank.

 

Only because I too have been guilty of such language and the immediate consequences of such self-talk can I so adamantly share the evidence, unwanted results of such language.

 

How we speak to ourselves and to others is directly reflected in our experiences. What you fear you manifest faster and first, what you complain about brings more of the same, what you affirm with positive I AM and I HAVE statements brings the wanted results; Declare your hearts desires; magnetic Universe – supporting you with the how that comes when we trust! Boomerang!

 

For help in taking the next steps to making the shifts you want to change your results… for personalized life coaching with Veronica, who brings you over 25 years of life strategic planning expertise.

 

If there is anyone who can help you make the changes, easily and effortlessly, it is Veronica. You want support from someone who has traveled the journey so that you can take the shortcuts… she is your go to gal.

 

Posted 8 years, 3 months ago at 12:54 pm.

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…”Always true, under all circumstances, throughout history”

The four most profound words, always true, under all circumstances, throughout history, are “this too, shall pass.” According to Brian Tracy, one of my favorites and Eckhart Tolle, these four words are the ANSWER to HOW TO cope with, accept what is happening NOW.

Building Your Best Life is about being able to be happy with who you are, what you want, why you want it and how to achieve it.

What is your IT?

Being able to identify and really know your WHY you want what you want is a major key to being able to achieve your dreams. Being present to the NOW and what is, with complete acceptance is the KEY to being open, receptive and coming into the attractive vibration of your desires. The power of the words you choose to identify what you want really matters.

Defining your vision, with powerful words, images and passionate desire is what makes the difference. Being able to hold that powerful intention is sometimes where our greatest challenges are experienced.

So, when you are faced with any challenges or changes that feels out of place, out of character for your grand vision, stop… and be still with THIS TOO SHALL PASS. Being able to take this position will ground you, allow you to center and refocus on your desires.

I am being reminded each day of the WHAT IS and being with how life feels right now. With so much external challenges, changes and constant influx of ‘the sky is falling’ keeps me on my toes. Learning to be with silence, shutting out the media blitz and taking great care in what kind of conversations, communication and connection I am engaged in is making the biggest difference.

How about you? Are you managing your input, guarding the gates, being mindful of holding the vision that keeps you on track with your own personal journey of living with passion and purpose.

Building Your Best Life is a supportive partnership for holding your vision with you, for you. If you are not clearly defined in your life path vision, that too is one of the major processes of being fully supported in that knowing what holds your heart and keeps you on track.

So, when situations and circumstances come in to pull you aside, off track and questioning your journey, it is time to stop, to listen closely and take the time to go inside, from within, to revitalize your hearts desire.

Remember, the power of your words, what you say is what you get… so affirm your intention, hold your vision, keep mindful of your desires and allow THIS TOO SHALL PASS to be the grounding that will keep you going, on track, and when you want and need support you deserve, reach out and ask for help to keep you going.

Building Your Best Life… What you will receive is one-on-one coaching. I do have the experience of having taken this journey for over thirty years, and I can help you. I have my own personal coaching, connection and communication that helps you be the BEST you can be, and already are.

ask your questions and get the support you want and deserve.
Until next time,
Veronica

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Posted 8 years, 5 months ago at 11:39 am.

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Because I Believe in YOU..

Memories are made of this. I remember that song. Do you?

Today marks some significant memories and reminders in my own life journey.

It marks the most special day in my life that we all cherish… that wedding day. A day of love and celebration of two hearts joined with promise. That dream and promise lasted for a few short years, the union a few more years without the celebration and promise. But the memory of those times remains and reminds me of when my heart was young, vulnerable and pliable.

Today marks the day when as the promises no longer were being celebrated, but were being acknowledged as over. My ex signed the divorce papers on the anniversary date and handed them to me saying Happy Anniversary sweetheart… That memory will always be with me for he had broken my heart and I his. Our promises to each other had not been honored. Our friendship had come to pass.

For ‘this too shall pass.’ Reminders that change is with us, at all times.

Today also marks the birth date of my favorite uncle. My Dad’s brother, Frank Herring, who was one of the most optimistic and fun guys anyone would ever want to meet, much less have as a major influencing factor in my life. Today I am reminded of his birthdate and I take this time to honor him as he passed from this plane last week. Out of the six brothers there is one that remains, the youngest, another great friend and uncle…Jimmy. A generation of brothers that have given and shared every life lesson for faith hope and family first. Salude amore.

We each have dates that are significant milestones along our life journey, reminders of times when we were happy, optimistic and rooted in our dreams. What makes these memories great is that as we work toward future dreams we can use the feelings we once had with purpose, as anchors to fuel the thoughts and feelings of how did it, does it feel to have our dreams come alive and into our lives. What powerful tools we have from within to ignite the fires within our hearts.

What dates, memories and reminders do you have that ignite your dreams?

I am celebrating the passing from my entreprenuerial journey as Rhonee, The Feng Shui Queen into a phase of passage, semi-retired, writing my book and preparing to bring you another special phase for visioning, live design and planning; the construction phase of rebuilding firm foundations, strong structures, powerful tools and tricks of the trade of architecture. Architecture for life, the business of building a better life.

www.BUILDingYourBestLife.com is emerging slowly as I take the time and follow my heart through insight and healing of transformation. You might say recycling the old. Take the parts and pieces from the graveyard of yesteryear and making them new again, in new form. Fashioning new and more creative ways of Being into more pliable and flexible experiences that will fit better and serve more.

Come on along… for the journey… My journey of passion and purpose as Phoenix Rising.

You will also soon find new products and services profiled and announced at www.DesignedLivingSolutions.com real soulutions (no typo) for all that I now bring to you is about the soul journey from WITHIN… where the map is invisible, yet clearly Divine.

Because I Believe in YOU..

Posted 8 years, 5 months ago at 2:22 pm.

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WHAT I KNOW FOR SURE

Hi and welcome back,

Over the past few months I have been making every effort to rebuild my business by beginning again, by taking the past and transforming it into my new path, a future of transition and transformation.

Who better to learn from than one who has been there.

I AM THERE!

I too learn and understand that until this process is fully written and experienced into what we might call the end result there is much that is still uncertain.

What I want to share at this time is that in order to better serve you I have to stop serving you here for now, or pretending that you are there to serve. You are not there, not here.

I wish you were, but we both know you can take wishes to the bank and my livelihood is at stake here.

Having lost my home, my father, my daughter and so much more, all that I felt the meaningful things in life my business went too. So, starting all over from scratch with income from only early Social Security… talk about poverty overnight… my worse nightmare came true in a very short period, only a few months to go from The Feng Shui Queen, to dethroned, to homeless.

Now, a couple of years later I am not homeless, but a renter, sharing the home of someone else. Certainly a step up from spending time in my car on the road, searching for where could I go to live that I could afford.

Other circumstances landed me in the Boise Idaho area. Not that I would call this home, I can’t. I don’t have a home. I don’t have a job. I don’t know anyone and those I have met think I am a little left of far right, from another planet. Feng what????

So, for now I am going to FOCUS on my Feng Shui blog, to share what I do know for sure… that bad Feng Shui comes into the lives of even those who know a lot and have helped hundreds change their lives, improve their relationships, careers, even their finances… at the expense of not getting paid for what I give. Well, I am going to continue to give. If I had known what I know now I would not be in this situation.

WHAT I KNOW FOR SURE is that from scratch, from nothing it is very difficult to create anything, much less instill the trust of strangers… who is this person called Rhonee, The Feng Shui Queen?

I invite you to go over to www.TheFengShuiQueen.com and follow the information that has been around for just a few THOUSAND years helping people around the world improve their lives.

No joke… ancient wisdom for modern results… just like the Law of Attraction, no longer a secret…but the wisdom we need now more than ever.

Thank you, see you there… as Building Your Best Life continues its journey into the end result, my own journey back…

Rhonee, The Feng Shui Queen – a PHOENIX RISING

Posted 8 years, 5 months ago at 9:38 am.

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When guidance comes

Hi and welcome,

If you have followed along you have seen that the parts and pieces to this life puzzle are being put together very slowly, in fact, even times when there is no action.

Life does happen that way. We are often not present for all the events that come our way, simply sitting in the bleachers.

It appears to me that when I asked for guidance during these times when it appears that my business appears to be gone… that the angels have taken over the TV remote. Seems every movie I watch has significant examples and answers to the questions I am asking. Subtle yet screaming, ‘are you listening’?

Movie after movie, and I am listen from within, getting the messages… stay the course, and just allow what is going on to be the perfect situation to learn from.

So, take care, write your question down, listen and watch to see what you stop on the next time you have the remote in your hand.

Posted 8 years, 5 months ago at 11:06 am.

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How Feng Shui IS of Law of Attraction

What does Feng Shui have to do with the Law of Attraction and how it relates to Building Your Best Life?

This morning I am listening to an interview with one of my own mentors, Marie Diamond is affirming in her sharing everything that I also teach and share about the oneness in Law of Attraction principles and the ancient wisdom of Feng Shui philosophy. If you would like this to listen to this interview please send me your comments or an email.

Feng Shui and Law of Attraction has everything to do with you and your living environment, your life and your results. Everything is energy, the flow of energy system that is in all, from the inside (your beliefs, thoughts, actions) and outside in the environment the physical evidence, (images, space planning, color). What we see is an influencing factor to how we feel.

With all the current economic loses I can show you how your living environment, the home you love so much could be both at cause and a remedy for the situation you are experiencing. I know, I have had the same kind of experiences, and I too lost my home, before I learned what I know today.

If you are not experiencing great success with what you believe and the actions you are taking… this is the missing link for most. There is another layer to this magical cake we experience as life.

I help my clients on one-on-one basis… and I am available to help you too.

Posted 8 years, 6 months ago at 9:38 am.

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MY BIG WHY! How Building Your Best Life is the KEY

Hi and welcome back,

I am happy to be back from travels, visiting and celebrating with my grandson Riley for his BIG FIRST. The gathering of friends and neighbors and Grandma made for a grand event… he could have cared less. He stuck his fingers in that white muck – called icing with sprinkles and that was the end of that!

So, on with back to work – this is not work, this is my passion and my purpose.

AND, after spending time with family – Family can be the best and worst of life learning experiences. I REALLY know my big WHY. When you are faced with those who don’t have a clue who you really are, don’t and couldn’t think of even asking how is your life, your business…what is going on with you? They don’t and didn’t. I knew what to expect and once again that is what I received. Can that be changed? I am still EFTing on that very subject.

MY BIG WHY is BECAUSE growing up and since I have never had the kind of attention, connection, or supportive encouragement to follow my heart, live my dreams I know that the need for others to have just that is my purpose.

Now, some 45 years into this gig I am writing my first book. After endless count of journals, hundreds of articles, poems, songs, radio and TV appearances I am working on my bio. How do I describe who I am and what I do for YOU. My challenge is how to sum up the diversity and extensive background that I bring to the table of contents that makes up my expertise. Yes, it gives meaning to my life path. The journey, makes me who I am.

I have read and studied with the masters, including Metaphycians Jerry and Esther Hicks, Bob Proctor, Neale Donald Walsch, Wayne Dyer, Tony Robbins, Louise Hay, Marianne Williamson, Laura Day, Oriah Mountain Dreamer, Deepak Chopra – and the list goes on… This is my testiment to the power of the wisdom of others as seeds, blossoms and fruits of my own life journey. Without them I would probably not still be on this planet.

From age 4 I was very creative, spending time with my Mom in making my wardrobe and decorating our home. It was apparent from the very beginning that I had something different, in my doll houses, my way placing the items back on the table after dusting, that was my job.

Why do I share this? My role now is to provide the support you want and deserve to find your way, discover your creative expression, find your voice and tap into the BIG why of your own life. If that sounds like you and where you are… then I am here to help you.

I don’t have a fancy website with books, CD’s and a product line to drain your pocketbook. I do have a personal coaching practice, one-on-one and small group settings. Together we dig deeper and create a new map for your journey. We put together the pieces for the big picture and design a life path that moves your life from searching to discovery. Once you have the clarity your life will be very different. The blinders will come off and you will see and feel more alive. Trust me, the journey can be fun. It may not have been without the support and encouragement you deserve and didn’t have. You can now have it.

I look forward to hearing from you, your comments and inquiry will get you a front row seat and opportunity to start fresh and turn your life around.

What kind of changes are you wanting to experience?

Building Your Best Life is an inner journey that has a clear path into the heart of the matter… what matters most is your heart expression. The reason you came is waiting to be fully expressed. Now is when.

Posted 8 years, 6 months ago at 3:57 pm.

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Building – where clear vision is required

Hi and welcome back,

You know by now that Building Your Best Life is an architectural metaphor for living the life of your dreams, with the clearest vision possible.

Vision is the clarity statement you express for the experience of your passion.

Passion is what you KNOW you are meant to express and even more so the why behind all that you do; from your core hearts desire feelings of you KNOW you have to, your passion is all that you focus your attention upon, and your passion feeds the intention that one way or another IT becomes you.

Putting your clear vision into focus, expressing your passion one way or another and the how… meaningful purpose the way that your hearts desire comes alive.

Like any other great structure the pillars of this foundation that Building Your Best Life is all about is the process of really KNOWING from your core the answers to these words.

How do you define your vision? Can you? Has it been you all your life and finally, now you are ready to allow it life, give it breath and birth it into being who and why you are.

How do you declare and claim your passion? Has it been dormant, or screaming to come out and play? I know you know what I mean. I know because I am just like you.
I too have a vision, a dream, in fact many dreams, like you. One is not enough. But if just one were fulfilled I know that I could and would move on to the next, for I also know we never get it done. There will always be desires flooding through you, though us. That is creation at work. And Creation is your only job… the joy of being creative expressions of God. Now, you may have other names for the One power that is the ONE energy of all, and that’s ok. Call IT what you may. There is only ONE, and you, me and everything is but a grain of sand upon this vast ocean of Mother Earth as one of the stars in the sky of this grand ONE, Universe: ONE SONG.

So, what is your vision? What is your hearts desire? Are you ready to jump and know that you can and will fly?

So, what is the architecture of your vision, your design, your plan?

That is where I come in. I have been an architectural consultant for over 30 years, helping hundreds create their vision, design their hearts desires and live the life of their dreams. This has been in the form of custom homes and life changing transitions, both are a major part of designing your life, how you live, where you live and being who you are as creative expression.

I, as Veronica, am a life designer, life planner, and life strategies coach. It is my joy of being to be of assistance, as partner, to hold your vision, help you bring clarity to the grand design and follow the road of construction of this grand structure, laying the foundation and having all the right materials for the job.

When you are ready, I am for my service is to provide you with the kind of support you want, you need and are willing to ask for… for alone we don’t do what we say we might. Together we do, hold each others hand, walk the path and see it through to completion… follow through is where most failure occurs. Partnership is accountability to follow through, together.

Thanks for coming, and I am ready to help YOU, yes YOU, when you are ready to BEGIN.

Posted 8 years, 7 months ago at 10:12 am.

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HAPPINESS is the GOAL – Let’s Build It together

The key to our journey in Building Your Best Life … all our efforts are to feel better, to grow and enhance the quality of our lives, the lives of those we share …

Happiness is the goal behind all the big goals you have, such as achieving success in love, your career, finances, or pursuing your hobbies and passion.

The following is not my original thought but one I totally ascribe to and agree with. found on http://www.the9intenseexperiences.com/

You’ll be pleased to know that multiple studies confirm that new intense experiences are the essential ingredient to:
• Greatly increase your overall happiness
• Achieve long-term success in relationships, finances, career… and in whatever you desire most
• Eliminate stress, angst and worry (and do so QUICKLY)
• Increase your daily energy (in a BIG way)
• Wipe out feeling overwhelmed, empty, restless, and frustrated with life
• POWERFULLY increase your creativity, mental focus and your memory
• Avoid premature aging—both mentally and physically by eliminating anxiety that leads to disease (and wrinkles etc.)

Indeed, if you are trying to do the right things in other areas of your life… eat right, exercise, meditate or pray, etc…. but you are NOT maintaining an ongoing diet of new intense experiences, you are sabotaging your success more than you know!

My offering is Just ASK, and it is given. The kind of support you are seeking is seeking you.

Building Your Best Life is an experience that is about transforming your life from the inside out…

The only way to experience THE SECRET of living and Building Your Best Life is to go WITHIN. BEGIN WITHIN, start now. In 10 days you can open your path to YOUR BEST LIFE YET.

You know if you don’t comment, I don’t know you are here… exploring, curious and ready to take action… it is your turn to take action. Let me know your thought, feedback… questions…. I too am curious about what you are seeking.

Posted 8 years, 7 months ago at 4:53 pm.

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Life Style STRATEGIES – for Building Your Best Life

What I now call ‘Building Your Best Life’ is the current results of over 35 years as a life style strategies coaching experience.  Now don’t get the wrong idea. I am not finished, just at the gate, on a new road… and stopping to allow some reflective insights.

 

From the beginning of my career I have brought insights, creativity and solutions to the issues, concerns and problems of others. I always had my own life experiences to use as a foundation, for I always had something that I could take exception with and stew about. Now that brings me to the real insight… It is never helpful to approach life from that end of the scope; A bit like shooting yourself in the foot.

 

Boy, did it take a long time and a very long road to come to that ‘here’s your sign’ experience. If you are not redneck or country fan you may not have a clue what I am talking about but if you do you too are laughing your head off; Funny how life can be funny, after the fact.

 

For some fun and laughter check out… www.You Tube.com and search for Bill Engvall, Travis Tritt, Jeff Foxworthy, Larry, the Cable Guy… and if you don’t find yourself rolling in the aisles there is something really wrong…so call me and I’ll get you help!

 

Now here is another funny…. All this time I thought it was Jeff Foxworthy that did this skit… HERE’S YOUR SIGN…

 

Only through the wisdom of crone can we begin to know that the life manual has been missing and what we thought all along is all of a sudden proven wrong; FALSE…

 

Do you get that? Yes or yes? 

 

Can you remember times where you thought you were RIGHT and nothing or no one would change your mind; absolutely not, never…not in a million years.

 

And now, you can sit back and tell the stories and laugh. Yes, laugh at yourself and the experience of being wrong, but not willing to admit it.

 

And everyone else laughs with you. That’s wisdom.

 

Wisdom is found only when you know that you don’t know… very much.

 

So, let’s today, Easter Sunday, as the beginning of a new thought, that everything can be perfect, just as it is… bless it and learn from the wisdom of having what you have, as creator, creative expression and a miracle.

 

Until next time… Today, NOW is all you have… so make the best of it.

 

Veronica,

a365daylife… one day at a time…

Let’s make it together… your vision, dreams and goals are MY WHY…

Posted 8 years, 7 months ago at 1:09 pm.

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